It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Thomas Lewis Allyn Moffitt who suddenly passed away on Tuesday November 5th at the age of 75. A devoted husband, loving father, and cherished friend, Tom brought light, wisdom, and warmth to everyone who knew him. His legacy of kindness, strength, and humor will forever be etched in our hearts.
Born on Tuesday February 1, 1949, Tom grew up in Aurora, Ontario where he cultivated a love for hockey, football, trivia and motorcycles. After graduating from Dr. G. W. Williams Secondary School he went on to work for Sterling Drugs, Brewers Retail and then Holy Cross Cemetery. After retiring, he went on to become a Crossing Guard where he was recognized as a Business Person of Character. Over the last 10 years he worked at Cookie it Up where his dedication and passion left a lasting mark.
More than anything, Tom loved his family deeply and showed it every day in ways big and small. He married the love of his life, Robbie, with whom he shared 50 wonderful years of marriage. Together, they built a home filled with love, laughter, and countless memories. He was a proud father to Lyndsy, and Jordan, both of whom carry forward his best qualities and his unwavering support and love. Tom was also a loving father-in-law to Ruth, and Lucie and the eldest sibling to Chris, Patsy, Barry, Brian, and Mary Jo. He is preceded in death by his parents Martin and Mollie Nabuurs.
Tom's legacy is a testament to the strength of kindness, and his family will continue to honor his life by holding onto his values, love, and unwavering spirit. Though his passing leaves a tremendous void, his memory will continue to guide, inspire, and comfort us all.
Friends and family are welcome to join in remembering and celebrating a remarkable man who will be deeply missed. Online memories and condolences may be shared with the family below.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Aurora Minor Hockey/Aurora Tigers in memory of Tom, who deeply loved hockey and cherished his time as an Aurora Tiger. Memorial contributions can be sent directly to the Aurora Minor Hockey Association at P.O. Box 71555, Aurora, Ontario, L4G 6S9 | 905-727-1480 or you can contact Peaceful Transition York at 905-841-1900 | info@ptyork.ca.
A celebration of Tom's life will be held at a later date. Please check back for details.
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Dave Woodall
Posted on: Monday, November 11, 2024Shocked to hear this very sad news. Sincere condolences to Robbie, Lyndsey, and Jordon ! I have no doubts that you will all carry on his legacy as that is exactly how I remember him. R.I.P. Tom.
Erin Toner
Posted on: Monday, November 11, 2024Deepest condolences to all the family and friends of Tom – a friendly, energetic and warm soul. He will be missed.
Erin, Mark and Holden
Cheryl Durant/Callaghan
Posted on: Monday, November 11, 2024Tom was a wonderful person and a great cousin who seemed to love life and his family and friends.
Tom always called me pal, is the one thing of many things I will remember about him.
He will never be forgotten and always be remembered and loved.
I among so many will miss him deeply.
Rest in peace Tom, Moffitt .
Doug Callaghan
Posted on: Monday, November 11, 2024Very sad to hear of the sudden passing of my oldest cousin Tom Moffitt. Tom was a good guy – always up for a good time at family gatherings. He had that cool factor with his love of motorcycles.
I remember Tom joining my Dad (uncle Al to Tom) and I on a trip to Rich Stadium to see the Bills play back in the 80s. He had never met my Dad’s coworkers, who were with us, but he quickly fit right in, laughing and joking with the group. A good memory.
He and his wife Robbie once came down to Grimsby and stayed the weekend. I remember it was the weekend that Pink Floyd played in Hamilton in 1975.
Tom was a good guy to talk to – about football, hockey and of course motorcycles. He will be missed.
Deepest condolences to his wife Robbie, daughter Lyndsy and son Jordan – as well as brothers and sisters Patsy, Chris, Barry, Brian and Mary Jo. Wishing you strength to get through this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Cousin Doug
Bert and Marilyn Nabuurs
Posted on: Monday, November 11, 2024Tom left this earth way to soon, as your uncle and aunt, we will miss your shy comments and conversations every time we met at a family function. We all ways loved to get your opinions on things, especially sports. Tom you were way to young to leave us , but whatever time we have had together we will never forget you, God Bless you on your journey and we pray for Robbie, Lyndsy and Jordan to carry on without you.
Christine owen
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024Sorry to hear about Toms passing. Please accept our condolences. Our thoughts are with you at this time.
Lui Cordeiro
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024Condolences to the whole family. Tom was a great guy who will be truly missed.
Stephanie Smith
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024Robbie, Lyndsy and Jordon -I am sending you, his family and close friend – my sincerest condolences – this is such a loss and my thoughts are with you all. I am so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. He was such a great person – I can’t put into words how much I enjoyed talking to him and how funny he was. He always made me laugh and was so welcoming every time the extended families got together – he definitely always wanted to make sure we always had a good time. I am thinking of you and the family – sending you love and comfort at this time – Stephanie Smith
Brad & Sandy Humfryes
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024Dear Robbie, Lyndsy, Ruth, Jordan, Lucie & Family
Brad & I are completely devastated by the loss of our Tommy.
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow as we think of Tommy, best of friends, the heart and soul of every gathering and truly one of a kind. From those spontaneous garage parties to the drive-by beeps from his motorcycle or SUV to the laughter and music that filled the air – every moment with Tommy was a treasure. He had that unmistakable sparkle in his eyes and a smile that lit up any room. Tommy is the definition of “Cool” – Our own Aurora Fonzie!
The fun adventures. Stories and the jokes we shared will forever be etched in our hearts. We’ll never forget “The one about the Phone Booth!” We always laugh when we think or talk about that one!!
Robbie, please know that we are here for you, now and always. Whatever you need we are just a call away. Our hearts are broken with yours as we also celebrate the joy Tommy brought to our lives. His memory will live on and we will forever cherish it
Love, Brad & Sandy
Cathy Stephens
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024So very sad to hear of the loss of Tommy. My condolences
Phiona Durrant
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024My friend I’m so saddened by your loss. 🙏🏽😣😣❤️❤️ . I love you MaryJo and I’m here in anyway you need support! I can only imagine the pain! Blessings to you and your family as you mourn this loss! Deepest condolences 💐 Hugs my friend!
Cindy (Young) /Wille
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024Very sorry for your loss. My sympathies to the extended Moffitt/Smith families
Marlene Beaman-McQuay
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024My deepest condolences to Tom’s family. Tom was well known in Aurora I’d say a big part of Aurora history. Such sad news to read I was shocked. Deeply saddened Tom was a great guy and loved his family to the fullest. He will be missed beyond words. 💝
Caroline Wiley
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024So very sorry to hear of Tom’s sudden passing. Our sincere condolences to his family and extended family and friends. He was always very kind, fun and friendly and always took great care of the Regency Acres students – including our two daughters – who would cross his post during his time as a community crossing guard. He loved his Buffalo Bills and his family and would often share stories of both to those around him. We always enjoyed giving him a wave or a honk when we saw him in the ‘hood as he would do to us. May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him. Tom will definitely be missed. The Wiley family – Caroline, Mark, Megan and Rachel
Jim & Toby Allen
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024Our deepest condolences to Robbie and Tom’s entire family
He will be missed by many and never forgotten
Our love and support goes out to all of you
Jim , Toby & Family
Brent Hotham
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024I’m stunned by the news. My sincerest condolences to Robbie and the family. Tom you were a great guy, may you RIP.
Jeff MacDougall
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024How could you not be a friend of Tom Always with a smile.
Paulla Bennett
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024Dear Robbie, I am so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. He really was a great guy, so funny, always a cheerful hello, kind words and a big heart. He did so much for the community and truly loved his hometown, Aurora. Sending love to you and your family at this very sad time.
Mike Krochter
Posted on: Tuesday, November 12, 2024RIP Tom. great memories from when we were young.
Adam Porteous
Posted on: Wednesday, November 13, 2024I am so sorry to see this. My thoughts and prayers to all family and friends during this challenging time
Joanne brankin
Posted on: Wednesday, November 13, 2024I’m so sorry to hear the loss of Toms passing he was a wonderful person who always had a little chat to he ever came across and also called me pal
Janet (King) Hartley
Posted on: Wednesday, November 13, 2024Such sad news 😢. My condolences to Robbie and children and the entire Moffitt family. RIP Tom – you will greatly be missed but also remembered.
David Stewart
Posted on: Thursday, November 14, 2024Cindi and I came to know Tom over the past few years through his sister, Mary Jo. Such a vibrant, upbeat guy to chat with and who was always a pleasure to see. Our condolences to the Moffit/Nabuurs families for your profound loss.
Bruce and Terry-Lea Cowie
Posted on: Thursday, November 14, 2024We just heard of Tommys passing . We feel so sorry for Robby and their family .
Larry Schurman
Posted on: Thursday, November 14, 2024So sad to hear of Toms passing. So sudden. My thoughts are with Robbie, and family.
Marcia and Terry Martin
Posted on: Thursday, November 14, 2024Our sincere condolences to Robbie, Lindsy, Ruth, Jordan and Lucie on the sudden passing of Tom.
Tom and Terry were family friends . They enjoyed 20 wonderful years working together at Holy Cross Cemetery.
Many great memories.
Rest in Peace Tom
Love Terry Marcia and Curtis
Gabriel De Medeiros
Posted on: Friday, November 15, 2024Saddened to hear this unexpected news. Please accept my condolences during this difficult time. During the years working with Tom I will always remember his charisma, humor and mutual love for motorcycles. Rest in peace
Maureen and Peter Alcorn
Posted on: Friday, November 15, 2024There are no words to say how devastated we have been by Tom’s passing.
We are left with all of our many wonderful memories which we are thankful for.
Rob….you know we will be here forever for anything you need.
Love
Maureen and Peter
Kathryn Smallwood
Posted on: Friday, November 15, 2024To Robbie and family,
What shock to us all. Such a great guy. Gone way too soon.
We are hoping your great memories of Tom will help you through this difficult time and beyond.
Sending prayers, healing thoughts and hugs to you all.
Kathryn and Doug
Nancee Webb
Posted on: Friday, November 15, 2024Never met a more cheerful person and that smile! My sincere condolences to Tom’s family.
Mike picariello
Posted on: Saturday, November 16, 2024Rest in peace Tom. My condolences to the whole family. I had the pleasure of working with Tom for many years at Holy Cross. I look back on the memories and laugh.
Marg Norris
Posted on: Sunday, November 17, 2024Sorry to hear of Tom’s sudden passing. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Leo Givens and family
Joanne Shier
Posted on: Sunday, November 17, 2024Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Tom I wanted to share that I was a school bus driver when he was a crossing guard on Murray drive. Every morning and afternoon when I drove by he always had a kind wave and smile. I am sorry for your loss.
Dale Holmes
Posted on: Monday, November 18, 2024Robbie and all the family,
I was saddened to hear about the sudden passing of Tom. We had some great chats and it was a pleasure to have known him.
Take Care
Dale
Robert Stokes
Posted on: Tuesday, November 19, 2024Tom’s smile and positive presence brightened many days for me and my family. He will be remembered fondly and helped make Aurora a special place for me to grow up.
KATHRYN JEAN BARICHELLO
Posted on: Wednesday, November 20, 2024Conrad introduced me to Tom and Robbie many years ago. The stories and laughs will forever be a memory for me. Robbie I’m sure they are reunited once again. As conrad would say to him Rock Steady
Jocelyn and Angelo Alfieri
Posted on: Thursday, November 21, 2024Our deepest condolences to Robbie, Lindsy, Jordan and their families. Wishing you strength and peace at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. To our cousins Chris, Patsy, Barry, Brian and Mary Jo we are so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. We remember Tom fondly as we think back on the Nabuurs’ family gatherings. He was always such a positive force and someone we were all drawn to.
Bill McInnis
Posted on: Friday, November 22, 2024Totally shocked by this devastating news. Have known Tom since high school and all through minor hockey. Always enjoyed running into Tom and catching up. He will be missed.
Peter Case
Posted on: Friday, December 6, 2024Condolences to Chris , Pat and Robbie . Are thoughts are with you. Tom will missed. Peter and Dianne Case