James “Graham” Dwyer

July 27, 1949 - November 1, 2024

Funeral Details: Private Family Arrangements

Peacefully passed on November 1, 2024, at the age of 75. He was the beloved husband of Patricia “Pat” Dwyer (nee Ogilvie) for 44 cherished years. Graham is survived by his brother Richard (Dick) Dwyer of North Bay, and his nephews Gary Dwyer of Ottawa and Brian Dwyer of North Bay. Also survived by his brother-in-law Walter Ogilive (Joan), sister-in-law Isabel Marks (husband Gary predeceased) and sister-in-law Brenda Greenlaw (husband Larry predeceased). Lifelong friends Jack Perry, Bruce and Kathyrn Woodman, Marion and Victor Burns, and Deb Harper.

Graham was known for his fun-loving spirit, a ready sense of humor, and a knack for pranks that brought laughter to those around him. He enjoyed listening to music. And as a true music enthusiast, he and his wife took up piano lessons at the age of 40, embracing the challenge together and challenge it was. An animal lover at heart, Graham adored his dogs, especially his golden retrievers—Riley, Gracie, and Gus. He missed them dearly, and we hope they are joyfully reunited, bringing him laughter, peace and comfort.

In accordance with Graham’s wishes, a private cremation has taken place. Friends and family are invited to share their memories and condolences online at www.peacefultransition.ca.

Peaceful Transition Simcoe

CONDOLENCES

12 Condolences
  • Diane Elliott
    Posted on: Sunday, November 3, 2024 Reply

    Pat I am so saddened with the passing of Graham.

    On behalf of myself and my family, my sincerest and heartfelt condolences to you and your family

    It’s so true. Graham loved to laugh. We shared many many laughs sitting in the garage or in your backyard.

    May the happy memories provide you with some smiles and comfort

    Take care. I’ll be in touch

  • Pam McCloskey
    Posted on: Sunday, November 3, 2024 Reply

    Dear Pat- Please accept my sincerest condolences for the loss of your beloved Graham.

  • Pam McCloskey
    Posted on: Sunday, November 3, 2024 Reply

    Dear Pat – I’m sorry to hear of Graham’s passing, please accept my condolences. Keep memories with him alive to cherish forever.

  • Ann & George McCullough
    Posted on: Sunday, November 3, 2024 Reply

    We will miss Graham and that twinkle in his eye and his shy sly smile. Our sincere sympathies to Pat, the family, and to the many friends Graham and Pat have made over the years.

  • Diane Elliott
    Posted on: Monday, November 4, 2024 Reply

    Bryce and I send our condolences to you and your family. You had many happy years together.

  • Debbie and Eddie Ing
    Posted on: Monday, November 4, 2024 Reply

    Dear Pat, Eddie and I send you much love during your difficult journey ahead. Cherish all the love and memories that you shared with Graham over the last 44 years plus. Graham was a good man with a great sense of humour. He will be truly missed!😘Debbie and Eddie Ing

  • Jan Moore
    Posted on: Monday, November 4, 2024 Reply

    Pat. Although our lives have gone in different directions over the years I remember Graham’s sense of humour & zest for life. I’m so sorry to hear of his passing & know you are in my thoughts.

  • Mardy Robson
    Posted on: Monday, November 4, 2024 Reply

    Dear Pat – I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Graham. May the cherished memories of the 44 years you shared help sustain you in the difficult journey ahead.
    ❤ Mardy

  • Pat Navarra
    Posted on: Tuesday, November 5, 2024 Reply

    Pat, I am sorry for you loss. Graham was never far from your thoughts. My condolences to you . Pat Navarra

  • Marilou Mason
    Posted on: Tuesday, November 5, 2024 Reply

    Dear Pat
    I am so sorry to hear of Graham’s passing. May your love & cherished memories help you through this difficult journey ahead.
    Marilou Mason

  • Donna Jelly
    Posted on: Wednesday, November 6, 2024 Reply

    Dear Pat. Thinking of you at this very sad time as you grieve the loss of your dear Graham. Your long time together has given you many memories to cherish.
    Donna

  • Marion and Vic Burns
    Posted on: Wednesday, November 6, 2024 Reply

    Oh Pat, it was a phone call that saddened us to the core. The health struggles endured over the years were immense, but could never be eclipsed by the devotion you both had to one another. His calls when he was worried about you were many, and a clear indicator of his love.
    We miss that caring, witty, linguistic, snarly, laughing guy, but the memories that go with all that he was will never be gone. When an ‘older’ guy can continually bring laughs and smiles to a couple of preteens is testament to his caring personality, even when ‘Precious’ got on his nerves. It was wonderful to see that relationship carry into their adulthood.
    You are so right Pat, the musical challenges! Sunday mornings, especially in the summer with the windows wide open for all to hear, was the perfect time for Graham to sit at his piano and play (aptly named) ‘The Entertainer’ from The Sting beautifully, til one teeny tiny part where his fingers eluded him. That was in the early 90’s. Did he ever get it? It certainly brought a smile to our faces, and still does.
    We moved away from you, but our true friendship never wavered. Coming down to hold my hand during chemo treatments, and managing to get a gross of purple candles to us during the horrendous Ice Storm of 98 in Eastern Ontario were clear indicators.
    We will miss him, we will mourn him, but we will never, ever forget the memories and who Graham was. Rest easy my friend.

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